Re: Why Tora Tolerates Bullies
« Reply #32 on: March 06, 2018, 09:41:12 AM »
babyshark is such a feeler. i don't understand, every time something happens it's a big giant issue. People on this server DO NOT think that people's behaviors should be regulated to fit what you think "appropriate" behavior should be. If i am a "dickbag" to people, then I deal with the consequences. the door swings both ways. I don't care about anyone on this game, in turn I don't expect anyone to care about me. No one is going to have a policy debate on the server based on feelings. If you have a rational argument, present it. I'm not even trying to be confrontational or malicious. I'm letting you know so that you know. Most people are somewhere between thinkers and feels, i'm 92% thinking. Which means that your concept of "regulating bullying" is absolutely absurd to me. And I know it isn't to you. But People DO NOT share your opinions on regulating people's behavior. This type of server policy will result in more people leaving, and it will be WORSE for the community. It's common knowledge that word and thought policing is always a slippery slope. I think you have to be more objective and rational with your forum posts. They're always slanted based on how you interpret a situation, instead of what happened. Not that this isn't a common occurrence, however you do want to be aware of how you're policing yourself over a long period of time. Sometimes, even with my struggles I have to surrender what I think is true, and what I think is right, and take a look at other people's perspectives, even though I KNOW they're wrong. But unfortunately, we have to live with other people in this world. You don't have to agree with someone to see where they're coming from though. This is something that people DO NOT understand, and NEVER practice. It's something that I naturally have to practice (because my beliefs are extremely contrary to everyone else's), but no one ever does it for me. Ever. But the bottom line is, always blaming everyone else, even if it's true it's their fault, isn't going to do YOU any good in the long run. If you are having problems, find the cause and solution within yourself.