Technically, about how to steal data for hosting owner: the easiest way is to insert a boot CD and reboot. Then do everything you need and reboot again.
Well to be fair, he could do that with or without iL's knowing or authorization.
If he is an employee in hosting company, there's a big difference: to get data from your own hosting or to steal it from one of clients...
(That's not an accusation against anybody, just a technical explaination.)
I don't know our members of community well, i know GruntX as a good and old player, i never heared about any conflicts between him and others, so maybe it's just a paranoia. But every admin is a little paranoid.
When i keep the server that means people trust me their personal data. At the same time what private data could be located on the server (except passwords, that are reversable and that means people should never use the same passwords anywhere else, i told about that also).
Also our community is small and almost dead, that's true.
So, I'd say it's up to community. If people trust someone, let it be so. If someone distrust, we can keep separately and pay it ourselves. I don't think $10-$20 per month is a big problem for most war2 players.
At the same time this forum is working fine on mousey's hosting and nothing bad still happened.
I also think we should trust people who can and want to help. Most people really care of war2, community and want to help.