You're painting a pretty picture for yourself. You're not a trustworthy person. Why would I put any effort towards giving two shits about challenging you when you can just dodge me at will. I'll only ask you to give me a time and date and I'll show up. It's almost irrational for me to even give you the ability to come to a scheduling agreement with me, because even if we scheduled a date/time, you probably wouldn't show up
I have better things to do than war2.